When this women found that Jesus knew all about her private life, she quickly changed the subject. Many times people are uncomfortable talking about their sins or problems and try to change the subject. Asking about the proper place to worship can also be a distracting or diversionary question, such as asking to debate which is better, a choir or a vocal band, an organ or a keyboard, etc. Such conversation is a way to cover up our deepest need—Jesus brought this woman back to : How do I worship, and whose help will I need? Also, the Holy Spirit helps us worship by praying for us, by teaching us the words of Christ, and helps us feel loved.